The Fora platform includes forum software by XenForo, http://talkaboutmarriage.com/general-relationship-discussion/50152-our-blog.html#post873339, VerticalScope Inc., 111 Peter Street, Suite 600, Toronto, Ontario, M5V 2H1, Canada. You deserve better than this. he dont hit me but he spits in my face. 15) This isn't the first time that global teen media has spat in the face of the kids who make it tick. Colleague 1: Yes. When someone spattered his spit on another persons face, that spit was meant to humiliate, demean, debase, and shame that person. I would spit at him back but then again that might provoke him to hurt you. His love for them was unwavering unshaken and unaffected by their wrong actions. I am sure that our competitors will not like it. The same Holy Spirit who lived in Jesus now lives in me and just as the Spirit of God empowered Jesus to love everyone consistently, now the Holy Spirit empowers me to do the same! People don't get a free pass to cheat just because their marriage sucks. i go sometimes with him but the bartenders wera low cut shirts and show boobs if requested, i ask him not to go without me becouse it makes me uncomfortable,i guess becouse i turned 50 so maybe its an issue wit me but anyway we have had a domestic violance case befoer. Don't beat yourself up over what you did or didn't do, what caused it, etc. Talk About Family, Marriage and Relationships. To me, spitting in a spouses face shows a serious level of contempt. If your relationship has deteriorated to that point then in my admittedly ama Humiliating Jesus with their spit and curses didnt satisfy the hatred of these men; they wouldnt be satisfied until they knew He had been physically maltreated. this morning. Argued for it being ok. Never did it again. It is definitely unforgivable and you should break up with him. Add your answer to this question! Finally, the Spirit of God asked me, Are you willing to sow a seed for peace with this church? Allow them to support you and your children at this time. Nov 10, 2011. What will you do if a guy spits on your mothers/ wifes face unprovoked? Forget the fact that he's good-looking and has a "presence" that attracts other women - that doesn't make him worth more, it actually makes him less of a keeper, because he'll think he can hold that over you to keep you in line, and he'll be more likely to cheat anyway. Matthew 26:67. And it's beside the point. If you don't want to tell your family that is okay too, its your decision. I was truly deeply appalled and shocked. Spitting at you, threatening you, treating your other DC badly, being unsupportive about PND - this is unacceptable behaviour, full stop. When I look at how far I've come now, it's just amazing to me. Was he so unappreciative that you felt as if hed spit in your face? . How about you? I really am in disbelief over this. It was as if he was telling me that he found me disgusting. Thank you all. I've watched him overcome some pretty hard things in our short marriage, but I have also seen him be one of the most hateful people I've ever met and not just on crack, I've seen him sober and hateful, I.e. It's only going to get worse. We think of motorized bikes 18) Hence the flurry of road upgrades. I testify that there is none worthy of worship except Allaah, and that Muhammad is His slave and Messenger. You know the options you have,weigh them and make moves asap! Colleague 1: I offered the client what I thought was a good deal and he spat in my face. I would even sugest he take some anger management classes.No normal person spits in there loved ones face either he is commited to change or the next time It's not too late to call the cops, I did not know that it was considered battery. I won't be surprised if some men come to this thread to ask OP what she did to provoke the man into spitting on her or to 'advice' her to be a good wife by being more submissive and prayerful and non complaining. Well if he is real violent that might not be a good idea. How did you act in response to that situation? What rubbish! You are human, demand to be treated like one! Every time they struck Him, they were leveling a punch against the anointing. I would have freaked the f**k out! Be very careful with such a man before he graduates to threatening you with. definitely in the midst of an argument. I would not continue living with him either unless he puts a stop to it. By the time Caiaphas and his scribes and elders had finished taking turns spitting on Jesus, their spit was most likely dripping down from His forehead into His eyes; dribbling down His nose, His cheekbones, and His chin; and even oozing down onto His clothes. Posted April 11, 2011 You are having a conversation with someone you care about and this person I know that with Your help, I can love them steadfastly no matter what they do! All rights reserved. Then forgive those people, and decide to love them the way Jesus loved those who wronged Him! male Yeah, that's not something you let go. if (year < 1000) year+=1900 female But soon after our dedication, this man stood before a large convention of several thousand people and sneered at our new facility. The pastor told his leaders, Look at this puny little check Pastor Rick gave us! Why are some men like this now? His choice to spit on you, especially your face is assault. My H is ADHD, he grew up in a very abusive family, and honesty I think he is bipolar on some level. Dont be a doormat. They got me a job after I searched for months, allowed me visitation with my "kids", (that really kept my spirit alive during this time, because wouldn't you know it - after I found it was so difficult on my own, I started REGRETING having called the police on my ex)!!! Nobody but yourself can get you to the point where you're willing to demand respect or show him the door. only he can choose who he wants to be in life. JavaScript is disabled. Just shows poor planning and spits in the face of every city planning scheme being undertaken in the developed world. Its seriously disgusting, and you should throw the whole man away. He became the perfect husband shortly after he hit me for the last time 5 months ago now. Spitting in the face of your spouse after they have offered an apology is not a good way to have a good relationship. He's threatening to come up to my job. Another option for me to consider, thank you. But you all have got me thinking hard. 5) response to a people deep in struggle. All quotes delayed a minimum of 15 minutes. We both have calmed down. You also have the option to opt-out of these cookies. It appears that these scribes and elders were so paranoid about Jesus getting more attention than themselves that they simply wanted to destroy Him. We also use third-party cookies that help us analyze and understand how you use this website. He's hit you before and is still excusing horrible behavior. Have you tried spitting on him? 1. To make it worse, the offender would usually spit hard and close to the persons face, making it all the more humiliating. In that culture and time, spitting in ones face was considered to be the strongest thing you could do to show utter disgust, repugnance, dislike, or hatred for someone. It'll be worse. When he looked me dead in the eye and said "Good" I knew that he was going to kill me. In one of the nations most grotesque events, supposedly unbiased journalists gather to cosplay as Hollywood stars and give each other awards for partisan reporting. var daym=mydate.getDate() If I could find something else wrong with him, I might not have such a struggle with my choices. Throughout that entire service, I argued with the Lord. The Right of Sexual Relations between Spouses, Essentials and Items the Husband Must Provide for His Wife, Newly Married Wife Finds Mother in-Law Is Very Authoritative and Wants to Live in Separate House, Marital Problems and Separation While They Have 4 Children, Not Incumbent on Spouses to Sleep in the Same Bed but Wife Is Obliged to Answer His Call to Bed, Religions, Sects and Da'wah (Call to Islam), Jinaayaat (Criminology) and Islamic Judicial System, Islamic Politics and International Affairs, Medical Issues, Media, Culture and Means of Entertainment. male WebNo woman with self-respect would ever allow anyone to spit in her face. I pulled my checkbook out of my pocket to write what I considered to be a sizable gift for this other church. It spits in the face of everyone who judges people without knowing them. Matthew 26:67 says, Then did they spit in his face, and buffeted him. The word buffet is the Greek word kolaphidzo, which means to strike with the fist. And one by one, each of these so-called spiritual leaders, clothed in their religious garments, walked up to Jesus and spit in His face! But when I heard what this pastor did next, I was literally stunned. Youre a valuable person, dont let anyone disrespect you like that, it doesnt matter how much you like him or love him, he doesnt care about your feelings, he doesnt respect you, and with time he will hurt you more and more, dont let that happen. All rights reserved. Imagine how your kids are affected, if my dogs are still like this, years later. Since its during an argument, understandably the emotions are high . It's not the worst thing in the world., women have shot, stabbed, kicked, burn If you stay, you might as well tell him to abuse you and disrespect you. I would have gone to a shelter if need be. }[Quran 4:19]. You know nothing about that situation. I walked out on my husband with a 4 month old, a 2 year old and a 4 year old when he threw a dresser drawer at me while holding the baby, after being out all night with no explanation. I was with a man who shoved me, slapped me, kicked me, but never spat on me For some reason this just feels like a new low!! Updated It is mandatory to procure user consent prior to running these cookies on your website. Create an account to follow your favorite communities and start taking part in conversations. . By some chance, he thought he'd ripped the phone plug out of the wall and DIDN'T. But opting out of some of these cookies may have an effect on your browsing experience. I am sure in your mind you were thinking everything is going good, we are working on making this work and then this. Honey, get out while your children are still young enough to see that life can be lived without abuse. It would be considered significant in any nation of the world. ICTV back in celebration of Curt's bday with the Spitting Challenge! All Rights Reserved. Because that is what will happen if you stay. "what if the black mark isn't gone after all? I agree that where there's a will there's a way. I know what I need to do now. I'm so confused. Did that conflict reveal that your love for them was consistent, unwavering, unshaken, and unaffected or that you have a fickle love that is quickly turned off when people dont respond to you the way you wished they would? Its horrible and I cannot believe you are taking it so lightly. Wow!! Mumsnet carries some affiliate marketing links, so if you buy something through our posts, we may get a small share of the sale (more details here). Upon hearing this, the high priest ripped his clothes and screamed, Blasphemy! as all the scribes and elders lifted their voices in anger, demanding that Jesus die (Matthew 26:66). Colleague 1: I think that we should spit in the face of conventional marketing strategy and offer unlimited free customer service to anyone that asks. if (daym<10) daym="0"+daym its a slum bar, i mean. Thank You so much for loving me in spite of the things Ive done and the things Ive permitted to go on in my life. . All perfect praise be to Allaah, The Lord of the Worlds. reader, Heartbroken in love+, writes (10 July 2009): A So now that you have reported him to everyone and he has refused to get help or listen, what do you intend to do? You already know thats unforgivable, be strong, fight against your feelings, delete his number, block him, delete everything that remembers you of him, change your phone number, anything that is needed, but dont stay with him, PLEASE, dont. His adopted father had given us the house we lived in, and kicked me out as soon as he learned I called the cops on his son. My thought would be that after cleaning up it was time for some cold, hard thinking. It would be time to analyse what had happened, and how things 249Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland. Dont be his verbal , physical punching bag. when I was sleeping my wife turned her phone on and the light from her phone bothered my eyes so I asked her They had lied about us, scoffed at us, and even prayed for our downfall. So to the poster, why do you stay with him? WebIf my wife spit on me during an argument does that mean it's over? Matthew 26:67,68 says, Then did they spit in his face, and buffeted him; and others smote him with the palms of their hands, saying, Prophesy unto us, thou Christ, Who is he that smote thee?. Honestly I would leave a man that spits on me after the first time because, I know my worth but thats something you have to figure out. Go to our stickied post for more details. This is a bot message. As much as I've put up with over the years for our marriage to stay in tact, everything we've been through and it just seems like he wants to hurt me. These religious leaders didnt stop with just humiliating Jesus. Is your love for those unkind people consistent, unwavering, unshaken, and unaffected? Then these religious scribes and elders did the unthinkable! Anonymous wrote: Um as far as I am concerned spitting in your face is the same as hitting you. You might wanna take a break from him, while he go sought for help. Couldnt he have done any better than this? When I heard how he viewed the sizable gift Id given, I was quite shocked. It means that the guy has no respect for his girlfriend whatsoever, probably also he lacks He just couldn't stop using drugs and abusing me. We all know we arent a perfect 10, but when you respect someone, . Re: What Would You Do If Someone Spits In Your Wifes /mothers Face? So why dont you take a few minutes today to pray about the people who have let you down or disappointed you? It's only going to get worse. What have I done that is so bad??? FYI- spitting on a person is considered battery. He could have gotten arrested for doing that had you called the police. In that culture and time, spitting in ones face was considered to be the strongest thing you could do to show utter disgust, repugnance, dislike, or hatred for someone. Where does it come from?? That clinched it! document.write(""+montharray[month]+" "+daym+", "+year+""). However, if he persists in doing so, it is permissible for you to ask for divorce in order to repel the harm from you if you think that divorce is better for you, but if you think that you can be patient on him, then you can do so. reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2009): A If I had the means, I would be gone. He wouldn't give them up and ended up breaking the keyless entry clicker before . I risked everything, lost everything and had to start from scratch, literally. Colossians 1:28, 2023 Rick Renner Ministries. He was choking me when the police came, and I remember whispering to him "I can't breathe". Face unprovoked the poster, why do you stay I done that is so bad??. Humiliating Jesus religious scribes and elders did the unthinkable of the wall and did n't next! Have gotten arrested for doing that had you called the police came, and honesty I he... Bipolar on some level just shows poor planning and spits in your face is assault then those! 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